by Janette Grant 28th February 2018
Mindful skiing? It’s all about clearing our heads of unwanted thoughts, controlling our breathing, dismissing our fears and increasing our focus, which as a consequence enables us to fully embrace the amazing experience of skiing, both physically and emotionally.
I’ve just returned from a wonderful week’s skiing in the Dolomites, Italy and having spent a good part of the week being mindful of the beauty of my surroundings I wanted to share my thoughts with you. Instead of racing down the mountain, not paying full attention to the experience – just aiming to get down as fast as possible and in one piece, I mindfully focused on each turn and considerably increased my enjoyment of the run down.
Mindfulness can have such an enormous impact in every part of our lives and I discovered how that extends into mindful skiing as well. Managing our thoughts whilst riding the chairlift for example can allow us to be truly present in the moment. Instead of sitting there thinking about the work we have to do when we get home, or that problem we have with a family member etc., we should recognise our thoughts and then re-focus on our breathing whilst taking in all the views around us – even when we’re sat there shivering!
Whether we’re a complete beginner on the nursery slopes or an expert bombing down the black (most difficult) slope, we can all benefit from being more mindful. This starts from the moment we squeeze our feet into the foot-clamps we call ski-boots! Instead of just thinking ‘How do I get these on?‘ and ‘How do I even walk in them?’ we should notice how our feet feel in them and focus on how they will protect us when skiing. We then reach the slopes – sometimes just by walking straight on to them, but mostly via a chair lift or cable car. How many of us – the moment we’re on the way up – take our phones out and check our messages? Instead of immediately being distracted by our phone, try being mindful instead. Notice the beauty of the mountains – the trees holding onto the last snowfall – the brilliant azure sky – the bright light of the snow being reflected by the sun and see the little animal paw prints across the virgin snowfield. Listen to the sound of the wind in the trees and the birdsong and the clunking of the chairlift as it goes past the pylons. Feel the crisp, cold air on our cheeks and smell that fresh, unbelievably clear, mountain air. Be in the present moment and appreciate and be grateful for the chance to be sitting there in that blissful place.
When we notice our mind wandering we should gently bring it back to the present and continue to feel gratitude. Focus instead on the next ski-run ahead of you and how you will be mindful during it. The more we practise mindfulness the more easy it will be to engage our brain to practise mindful skiing. Being mindful is about being aware of what is happening in the present, which is very important when we are flying down a mountain. I look back over the past week and know that most of the reasons I had my worst fall ever was because I wasn’t being mindful of the conditions, my fatigue and my speed! I wasn’t focused on the moment. Instead, I was allowing my thoughts to drift off thinking about a relationship problem in a negative way and not focusing on the present. This taught me a valuable lesson and for the last few days I made sure to be more mindful in my skiing!
Skiing the slopes mindfully
- When we start our day we should have an idea of what we want to achieve that day. If we’re a beginner we can make it our intention to ski all the way down a green (easy) run without falling, or if we’re an expert, we can plan how we’re going to make it down that Olympic run we’ve been planning to tackle all week. If we can stay mindful, it will help us to successfully complete our intention in one piece.
- When we’re on the lift up, we should focus on gratitude and the challenge ahead. When thoughts of doubt, or fear, or worry appear, we should just recognise them and then let those negative thoughts float away with the clouds and bring our attention back to our breathing and the present.
- When we are standing on top of a slope we can easily allow fear to take over – the mountain can look incredibly steep – but we need to learn to trust our abilities. If we’re with an instructor they wouldn’t be asking us to do it unless they thought us capable. And if we’ve been skiing for many years we should focus on knowing we can do it. We just need to let go of our concerns and trust that we will remember how to turn and stop. Inner Skiing – Amazon book
- When going down the slope we should stay completely focused on our movements and our senses. If we have a wobbly moment, when we hit ice or a bump and we feel ourselves losing control it is easy to allow fear to take over. Our brain starts to panic and we quickly imagine ourselves falling down the hill and crashing into others or trees etc. This is when we can either throw ourselves to the ground in the vain hope that it will stop us falling further, or we can bring ourselves back to the present, remember what we have been taught, engage our core muscles and focus on slowing down. By bringing our focus back to what is needed in the present we can then recover and continue on our way skiing safely down, without any bruises or broken bones! Mindfulness may not be the first thing that comes to mind when we think about skiing, but when we’re on the mountain – no matter what level we’re at, whether we’re on a green or a black run – if we suddenly feel that fear we have to use our mind to conquer it and focus on what we’re doing. This is something I regularly experienced this week – when I heard a snowboarder coming up behind me, when I hit some ice and lost some control and when too many skiers were close to me for my comfort – my mind would start to panic and it would’ve been easy to forget everything I know about skiing. But then I would take a deep breath, and focus, and ski down without panicking or allowing my fear to take control. Overcome your skiing fears – Amazon audio cd
When we bring more mindfulness into our skiing, we can learn to release outside worries, be more in tune with our bodies and completely immerse ourselves into the experience. This will then also help us to recognise when we are getting tired and need to take a break to prevent injuries – something to which I should’ve paid more attention!
‘It’s not the mountains we conquer, but ourselves’
Mindfulness can be practised with most activities of course – not just skiing. But this time of year millions of us around the world like to throw ourselves down the slopes and it’s great that practising mindful skiing can help us to enjoy the activity even more. Those moments when we can recognise that our attention has wandered off and we can bring ourselves back to the present, enables us to completely feel that enjoyment. Mindfulness is often used in sports by players focusing on the present moment, which allows them to play with better accuracy, clarity and composed concentration – it is what athletes refer to as the flow state.
This mindfulness can positively affect every part of our lives. Many of us suffer from anxiety and one of the best ways of dealing with it is to take a deep breath and focus on the moment. It allows us to be more efficient, clear our head and to achieve better results in whatever we are doing. Mindfulness on the slopes can help us to overcome fear and when we learn to focus on the present, take a deep breath and let go of our fears we will have some marvellous mindful skiing.
Yes…I feel the cold and don’t like carrying my skis…I admit it!
50 Mindfulness quotes
50 Mindfulness quotes to inspire and uplift us!
by Janette Grant 16th June 2018
Sometimes all we need is a visual reminder to keep us focusing on the present moment, so I thought I’d bring us a page of mindfulness quotes to give us a little extra inspiration. A good quote can quickly sum up something meaningful in just a few words and may even help us to understand mindfulness better.
Here are some of my favourite quotes from many of the main mindfulness leaders, and others, about being mindful in general:
I hope that the above quotes were inspiring to you, and especially hope that they have given you something new to reflect on for your mindfulness practice. I love to concentrate on a different quote every day and it definitely helps to have the image in my mind, along with the quote, to help me focus on the words.
If you’d like to continue exploring more inspirational quotes these will help you develop more mindfulness:
The Little Book of Wisdom: Change Your Outlook One Day at a Time – this is a collection of advice and teachings from the Dalai Lama, with his helpful insights on daily living, compassion and inner peace. Whatever our beliefs, his words have the power to calm and inspire us all.
Mindfulness Quotes: Thoughts for Meditation, Inner Peace and Change – short, powerful and easy to remember quotes, which make you think, meditate and help us live and feel our lives to their optimum. There are words of wisdom from Buddha, the Dalai Lama, Thich Nhãt Hanh and Jon Kabat-Zinn will show us how to live the present moment.
Mindfulness Affirmation Cards – create a clear, positive mindset with a pocketful of inspiration! These mindfulness cards feature beautiful images of nature and by helping us to focus on the present moment, we can calmly find peaceful resolutions to situations. They can help us monitor our thoughts and emotions, when we can progress to feeling more balanced, to bring calm and serenity to our lives.
11 Mindfulness Exercises
by Janette Grant 16th June 2018
I talked about mindfulness meditation in my last post and it’s the big thing at the moment, but sometimes in this busy world of ours we just don’t have the time for a long, formal practice; our mind is constantly scattering our thoughts and emotions, leaving us feeling stressed, highly strung and often very anxious.
It is unfortunate then, that most of us struggle to find five minutes to relax and meditate, let alone 30 minutes or more for a meditation session. Studies have shown how mindfulness meditation has many benefits, including reducing depression and pain, easing stress, accelerating cognition, increasing creativity and much more. So it is essential for our well-being to schedule a few minutes every day to cultivate mental spaciousness and achieve a positive mind-body balance.
Mindfulness exercises help us to become more aware of our more difficult and painful thoughts and feelings. The exercises can give us a sense of control over our thoughts, rather than feeling that we are controlled by them.
So…a quick and easy way to introduce some mindfulness meditation into our day is to do a few, simple mindfulness exercises, to empty our minds, to find some precious calm, and which can be slipped into our daily routine without having to always find time for some more formal mindfulness meditation.
11 examples of some easy mindfulness exercises are:
- Mindful walking – those of us who do regular walking every day – whether walking to work or walking the dog etc – can incorporate some walking mindfulness into the routine. Focus the attention on the sensation of our feet on the ground and our breath as we move. We can also move our attention to other parts of our body. The important thing is to have a relaxed attention.
- Mindful eating – we all eat regularly of course and we can practise mindful eating whilst doing so. When we take the first bite, we should take a moment to pay attention to the taste – really savouring it. We can look at our food carefully, feel the textures, smell it and notice how our body reacts. We don’t need to do this all through the meal! We should just practise it occasionally.
- Mindful mini-break – instead of using our break between tasks to check our email/ Facebook etc we should practise a mindfulness exercise. We could sit for a moment to notice the sensations in our mind and body. Pay attention to how we feel and what we can hear. Try to be as present as possible and when our mind wanders (and it will), gently bring it back to the present and be in the moment.
- Mindful listening – we very quickly get used to a lot of sounds and learn to tune them out, so when we have the opportunity, we should try some mindful listening. Pay attention to what we can hear around us or put on some music and really listen to it for a while. Our mind may try to wander to things the music reminds us of, or try to think about the lyrics too much, but we should just let the music flow over us.
- Mindful brushing – some habits are mostly done in such a perfunctory way that we hardly notice them! But tonight, instead of allowing our mind to wander off whilst we brush our teeth, we could focus instead on actually experiencing it. Notice how the brush feels on our teeth and the taste of the toothpaste. We can include any chore, such as washing the dishes, or a routine shower, and incorporate mindfulness into the process – bringing our mind back to the present when it wanders off.
- Mindful breathing – we can choose any moment during our day to focus on one breath – perhaps in the few seconds before answering the phone or when standing in line somewhere. We can focus our attention on how it feels when we breathe in and breathe out, noticing on how the air expands our chest and abdomen. It’s just a simple, little reminder for our mind to be present.
- Mindful observation – this exercise can help us notice and appreciate our environment in a deeper way. It helps us to connect with the beauty around us, which is often overlooked when we are rushing around. We should choose an object, such as a flower, and focus on it for a minute or two, simply relaxing into watching it for as long as our concentration allow. Look at it as if it’s the first time it’s ever been seen and explore every aspect of it, connecting with its energy and purpose with the world.
- Mindful awareness – similar to mindful brushing, the aim here is to bring a more heightened awareness and appreciation to the everyday simple tasks we do and the results they achieve. Maybe something as simple as opening a door for example, where just as we touch the doorknob to open the door, we can stop for a moment and be mindful of where we are, how we feel in that moment and where the door leads. Or, maybe each time we smell food, we could take a moment to stop and be grateful to have good food to eat and share with our family. It doesn’t have to be a physical touch point cue though – it could be that each time we have a negative thought, we could take a moment to stop, label the thought as unhelpful and release the negativity. Just choose some touch points at some moments in the day to stop and cultivate awareness of what we are doing and the blessings those actions bring to our lives.
- Mindful Immersion – the thinking behind this exercise is to build contentment in the moment, instead of our normal constant striving to finish one task just to get on with another! We need to take that regular chore and pay attention to every detail – experiencing it like we never have before. For example, when cleaning the house we should feel the motion when brushing up, sense the muscles we are using etc and discover new experiences within this familiar task. Instead of just working through and thinking about finishing the task, we should become aware of every step – fully immersing ourself into the process. We might even end up enjoying the cleaning for once!
- Mindful senses – a simple mindfulness exercise is to focus our awareness through our three senses
of sound, sight and touch on what we are experiencing right now. Taking a few breaths we should think: What are three things I can hear? What are three things I can see? What are three things I can feel? Think about these answers slowly, one sense at a time – it’s impossible to do this without being present and mindful.
- Mindful Appreciation – for this exercise we need to notice five things that we normally overlook – these can be people or objects or a mixture of both. The idea of this is to simply be thankful and appreciate the seemingly insignificant things in our life that support our existence, but that which we hardly give a second thought in our constant craving for bigger and better things. Even something as simple as the electricity that powers our kettle can be appreciated, but how often do we stop to think about how it exists or how it works? Have we recognised how it benefits our life and others? Have we thought about what life would be like without it and how everything is interconnected in this world of ours. I recently watched read a book where the first attack aliens used was to block all electricity in the world and it wasn’t until I truly sat and thought about how much we rely on it that I fully appreciated what it would mean to be without it! There is a saying: ‘If we woke up tomorrow ONLY with the things we were grateful for today, what would we have?’ Makes you think doesn’t it?! So…we should identify our five things and then endeavour to find out everything we can about their creation and purpose, so we can truly appreciate how they support our lives.
These items are great to help us expand our choice of simple little exercises we can use daily:
Mindfulness Pocketbook: Little Exercises for a Calmer Life – this little book has over 100 quick exercises for a wide range of situations in our lives, to help us become calm, collected and present. It will help us develop more mindful thinking, which will benefit us in our personal, social and work life.
The Little Book of Mindfulness: 10 minutes a day to less stress, more calm – these simple 5 and 10 minutes practises will help us rid ourselves of stress and find a more mindful, peaceful and relaxed life.
Stress Less Cards: 50 Inspirational Mindfulness & Meditation Cards – these cards contain 50 effective exercises to help us relieve stress and deal with anxiety whenever we need it. The techniques can be easily memorised and used anywhere to stop that stress reaction and help us relax.
If we can regularly practise the above simple exercises every day for just a few minutes, we will develop a moment-by-moment awareness of our surroundings, which will help us better cope with all the negative thoughts and feelings that create stress and anxiety in our life. When we can control our ability to keep our mind in the present moment – instead of being led subconsciously by our emotions influenced by negative past experiences and fears of future occurrences – we can deal with all life’s challenges in a clear-minded, calm and assertive manner.
We will then expand into a fully conscious mind-set where we can escape from unhelpful, self-limiting thought patterns and become fully present to focus on positive emotions that will increase our compassion and understanding of ourselves and others.
100% Mindfulness meditation: what it does for us!
Mindfulness meditation and its health benefits
by Janette Grant 1st June 2018
What is mindfulness meditation? How often do we hear about meditation and mindfulness or even mindfulness benefits these days? The words are frequently interchangeable and often, in a simplified way, refer to the similar idea – that of calming our frenzied minds. Mindfulness and meditation complement each other, like two sides of the same coin and they often overlap. But each also has its own specific definition and purpose and the main difference is that meditation is the large umbrella term for the practice of reaching ultimate consciousness and concentration, to acknowledge the mind and self-regulate it. It can involve many techniques to achieve this – one of which, is mindfulness. So mindfulness is a form of meditation, along with yoga, silence, breathing etc. There are many forms of meditation, but with mindfulness we bring our full mind to the present and focus completely on the moment. Being mindful of our breath, for example, is a common form of mindfulness during meditation and this improves our awareness of being in the present – this is called mindfulness meditation, or mindfulness buddism.
The practice of meditation predates mindfulness, which is often aligned with the Buddha when he discovered that focusing completely on his breath allowed him to see reality and reach meditation quicker. Whereas meditation is thought to have its origins in prehistoric religions.
What are the health benefits of combining both mindfulness and meditation?
There is much evidence to suggest that harnessing our mind to be in the present can improve our mental and physical health. A recent study has found that practicing mindfulness can have a positive affect on glucose levels, showing that improved focus and self control can help fight obesity and unhealthy eating habits. Mindfulness meditation has also been linked to improved sleep quality amongst older adults who would normally end up using sleeping pills. It has been associated with improved focus, reduced dependency on opioid drugs and lowered anxiety and depression levels. And even more impressive is that research has recently shown that mindfulness exercises and positive thinking can have a beneficial effect on the DNA of breast cancer patients, which suggests that mindfulness meditation can have an even more extensive effect on our bodies than we even thought!
Mindfulness meditation helps us become aware of what is already true moment by moment, rather than attempting to make us different from how we are -mindfulness training additionally present with whatever is happening in our lives – no matter what that is. How does that help? Surely we want to suffer less and tune into the natural wisdom? Isn’t that making changes from how we are? Well yes…it is…suffering less and becoming more aware of our inherent wakefulness are changes from how we experience ourself most of the time, but…the only way to alleviate suffering and find our inherent wisdom is to dig more deeper into the present moment and into ourselves as we already are – not by trying to change what is happening.
Buddhists teaches how to practice mindfulness in helping escape from our direct experience; we try to get away from our pain and hang on to pleasure, but this just perpetuates our suffering. And we cause more suffering when we try to hang on to our ego.
Instead, when practising mindfulness meditation – paying precise, nonjudgmental attention to our experiences as they happen – we do not reject anything. In this way, we do not struggle to get away from difficult experiences – we merely practise being able to be with them. Equally importantly, we need to practise mindfulness during pleasant experiences as well; we often struggle to simply stay present with happiness and instead turn it into worrying that it won’t last or we try to keep it from disappearing.
When we are mindful, we show up for our lives; we don’t miss them through distraction or in wishing things could be different. Instead, if something needs changing, being mindful means that we are present enough to understand what needs to be done. But being mindful should not prevent us from actually participating in our lives and taking care of our own and others’ needs; the more mindful we are, the more compassionate we will be.
Remember – mindfulness meditation is all about being mindful of whatever happens. It is not about trying to stop ourselves thinking – this is not the aim. Many people think that meditation is about emptying our mind, but this is certainly not true for mindfulness meditation. So remember…when you are aware of thoughts running through your mind (and they will), just include them in what you notice…don’t try to get rid of them. It won’t work anyway, and it’s not what mindfulness meditation is about. We are just trying to be with ourselves as we are – not trying to change ourselves into some preconceived idea of what we think we should be.
As we’ve already discussed, mindfulness meditation can have an enormously beneficial impact on our lives and so even as a beginner, if we just take ten minutes out of our day to be mindful – when drinking our tea, taking a break from work, or just focusing on our breath before sleep – there’s an amazing amount of power when we simply focus our mind.
There are many books and audiobooks etc. available about Mindfulness meditation, but some of the most popular items are:
Wherever You Go, There You Are: Mindfulness Meditation for Everyday Life – this book is written by the father of modern day mindfulness – Jon Kabat-Zinn and he shows us how to cultivate mindfulness in our lives and awaken us to the possibilities of each present moment.
Guided Mindfulness Meditation (audio CD) – this audiobook is also read by Jon Kabat-Zinn and he explains how the power of mindfulness can bring change to our personal lives, and the world around us, from learning, growing and healing.
The Headspace Guide to Mindfulness & Meditation: 10 minutes can make the difference – this book is for beginners and expert meditators alike and it teaches skills to combat the negative aspects of our busy lives. These powerful techniques will help us to quiet the mind, feel less stressed and less tired and achieve calm and fulfilment.
Stress Less Cards – 50 Inspirational Mindfulness & Meditation Exercises – these cards contain 50 effective exercises to help us relieve stress and deal with anxiety whenever we need it. The techniques can be easily memorised and used anywhere to stop that stress reaction and help us relax.